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Over coming this mind set is a normal and an important part of growing-up.When those characteristics manifest chronically in a “grown-up,” they are indications that person is not in fact a mature, responsive adult, but rather still reacting out of their self centered child self rather than as a mature adult.Rather than accept what is, emotionally dependent people tend to obsess about how to get others to think like them.They will resort to unhealthy behaviors to get their way, even if it cost them what was once a loving relationship. Emotionally healthy and mature adults have integrated that fact into their psyche and learned to surrender to circumstances beyond their control and learned to do so, with a sense of peace.
They pout, whine, cry manipulate, or violate the object of their obsession, all the whilst believing they are entitled to behave this way.
They attempt to control others which is something you cannot control.
Emotionally immature people are emotionally dependent. They seek to find reasons to justify their feelings and often are skilled at manipulating others.
When we are without significant people in our lives, we are able to glide through life on our own terms, addressing our needs and wants.
We are rarely confronted by the needs of others in a meaningful way.